Decayed Values!

India was the name of a British colony whereas Bharat was a country of rich and ethical values. We have adopted India, but left Bharat. Also, from ‘Pitaji’ and ‘Mataji’ we’ve come down to ‘Dad’ and ‘Mom’. Well, for youth that’s going up.On attaining independence, the Indian leadership adopted a Constitution based on exploitative imperial practises. This has led to all round social, environmental, economic and political degeneration.Over India’s long civilisation, some aberrations crept in its social structures.

Today, ours is a decaying culture. All round social and environmental degradation, pervasive corruption and self-seeking politics have become the norm. Our forests are depleted, water systems polluted. Asia’s largest illegal colonies have been built in India. Over half the urban populations lives in slums. They are migrants from rural settlement that are often worse then urban slums. The capacity of the state to deal with recurring draughts and floods is eroded. Starvation deaths have become frequent. Because of pressure on land for human needs, wild life habitats are deeply eroded.We adopted a faulty model of centralised planning and a controlled economy. Facing bankruptcy, we are now drifting from pseudo socialism to pseudo capitalism that fosters vulgar wealth alongside abject poverty. We are now almost entirely dependent upon foreign loans and direct investments to repay past debts and invest in so called “development”.

Violence is on the increase and an enhanced advent of foreign products and brands has entirely drifted away the basic indigenous convention from us. For instance,there are series of habits in the youth today,which has crudely demeaned the tag of “Future of the Nation”,when we already consider ourselves as NRI’s by adopting such hollow ideologies.There are some fundamental examples,which are resonating enough to almost everyone of my age and beyond,and they truly portray the  intoxication we admire being surrounded by myths.I would personally pose no acclamation’s on these emerging not-so-healthy trends,but would surely like to throw some light upon our fabricated lifestyles.

Instead of paying Rs.110 for a burger meal in packaged brands,can’t we afford to pay Rs.25 for a Vadapav or Coconut water and Rs.15 for fried potatoes, by just spending Rs.60,we’ll be efficiently contributing to our economy and Vadapav and samosa’s will be a ‘Totally Desi!’ replacement of burgers and pizza’s,which we blindly trust on having a fresh one and also there’s no doubt in coconut water being a perfect replacement of our “Thanda matlab…and Yeh dil maange more” hypes.Being healthy it also has some pro-economic benefits as it helps the poor farmers whose living entirely depends on it and no profit draining out to other nations.According to me,it’s completely baseless to barge on these international brands for a bowl of rice paying beyond 100 bucks,can’t we have Ghee Rice,Jeera Rice and Biryani’s ,where we have countless varieties to choose from,both for vegetarians and non veggies. Why do we hesitate to stop at a ‘Poha-jalebi and kachori thela’s’ to fill our half-filled tummies,or may be our systems are customized in a way to only thrust our hunger by these hi-fi air-conditioned eatable joints,so being an Indian nationalist we can atleast demand to initiate the chain of these eatables,which we know will more or less add to our economic structure.

Another cliche´, celebrating Valentines Day is stated as cool and romantic while Karvachauth isn’t ? Mother’s Day and father’s Day  is not for us,it is for those who leave their parents at a very early age and need a special day to remember them.If you really love your parents,then instead of posting “love you mom/miss you dad” on social networks ,take out time for them and serve them in the best possible way to make them proud.


You call yourself Modern? Huh!

According to Wikipedia,”Modern generally denotes something that is up to date”.But in our beloved country, a guy who straightens his hair by gel,wears a torn low waist jeans is “Modern”.He ‘s up-to date for sure.But up-to-date with what?

Indian Culture?? Nope

Western Culture??Yes, Perfect!

There are hell lot of ways to drape a saree,carrying Kurtis’s, churidars,patiala’s,and varieties of salwar kameez which can set up a trend if we like to,if we still consider Indian clothing as plain and boring,why can’t our fashion designers tweak and make it more exciting and trendy to meet the glamorous needs of Indian society.

Proceeding towards the mall culture,which is the most prevalent amid-st all sections of the country has downgraded the minds of people enjoying overpriced dresses/movie tickets and popcorn as well.Sometimes I wonder,why do we waste money at PVR’s and Cinemax’s to watch movies,where we pay equivalent for a box of popcorns to the movie ticket.Are we so accustomed to our lavish lifestyle that we are susceptible to these losses.

Heading toward the ‘Apple Mystery!’, a guy or gal who just want to use a smartphone for whatsapp,facebook and some browsing ,why do they want to buy an Iphone to serve this purpose? Are they a VIP or President of India,who really require a secure OS, so that they can prevent hacking of mobile or are they afraid that it might lead to the leakage of some important information which’ll turn out to be nation-wide threat?Simply we are running behind the upcoming brand names,which are selling for Rs.20,000 more in India than other nations (outside India-40,000 and in India-60,000) still we morons are running behind it,without carrying a tint of technical knowledge of what they exactly want from a smartphone.Today our youngsters evoke the motto of ‘No Apple,Not Cool!’ to signify the importance of an Apple Iphone holder.

Atleast we can make an approach to buy and use products manufactured by wholly Indian companies and try enrolling as many people as possible for the cause.We can still instigate the diet including Lemon juice,fresh fruit juice,Lassi, Buttermilk and Coconut water and  entrall the usage of indigenous products and services,be it the soaps,toothpastes,talcums, shampoo’s and mobile connections too.

However,by practicing this,we are not by any means going to boycott or stop using all foreign brands (which wouldn’t be good for our healthy globalization),but relatively we can make some effort to improve our economy and then worry about globalization.


The Secret of Wishes!

The law of attraction states that every positive or negative event that happened with you was attracted by you. There are only three basic steps: ask, believe, and receive. However, the point of this article is to break those three steps down into simpler, more concise ones. We all use the Law of Attraction in our everyday lives, but the Big Secret is most people do not realize it. So they miss out on how to use it deliberately to create whatever they want and desire.

After learning and analyzing this, my life has changed for the better.

We all tend to slip back into our most practiced ways of thinking from time to time, especially when we are in the vicinity of negative people or in a negative circumstance.
But, I have learned several ways to help me stay in that positive train of thought and it has been amazing. My life is much more peaceful and happy, because I now realize that I am the attractor of my own life experiences. It just requires following some very simple steps like –

Relaxing your mind. Meditating for few minutes. Doing this will increase brain power and have your mind at that relaxed state. Be sure about what you want and then practice not to doubt your belief. If  you aren’t sure of your want, the Universe will get an unclear frequency and it’ll accordingly send undesired results. So its mandatory of being sure of something you have strong enthusiasm for. Make a genuine request to the Universe or a picture of what you want, visualizes your want to be already yours. Make a written wish list for your want and avoid the negativity in it to have an infinite belief towards acceptance. Every day until the wish comes true, close your eyes and imagine your desire as if it’s happening right now.

Feel the way you will now after receiving your wish. You must act, speak, and think as if you are receiving it now. This is actually the most important, powerful step in using the Law of Attraction because this is where it starts working, and sometimes if you do this you don’t feel like you need it anymore because you FEEL like you already have it! And then the universe will manifest this thought and feeling and you will receive it. Write down all the things the Universe has given you. Be thankful for what you already have and be thankful for all the things the Universe has given you. The Universe has done a lot of things for us. Paying the Universe back with some gratitude will motivate the Universe to do even more things and will draw more things into your life. Showing gratitude will turbo boost the Universe to manifest your request faster.

Imagine an alternate dimension that is almost exactly like the real world but whatever you truly desire comes true in an instant. See yourself in that dimension, where whatever you ask the Universe for comes to you in an instant. Don’t look for what you asked for; this is where people tend to mess up. If you have to keep an eye out for an event that manifests your wish, it’s only telling the Universe you don’t have it and you will attract…not having it. Be patient. Don’t get upset if these things don’t happen immediately. Don’t stress the “how” of things. Let the Universe do it for you. When you take the Universe’s job of worrying about the “how”, this says you’re lacking faith and that you’re telling the Universe what to do when the Universe has far greater knowledge and power than human mankind.

Dream On!

Dream is a picture of our imagination.It is an expression of illusion we are budding into,which commiserates our good and bad and also make us anticipate the real desires within.Our dreams are a gateway to our future and a blemish to our past,which makes us more perceptible to follow them beyond shadow of a doubt.Sometimes we also visualize some expressions,which pose too hard to recall with open eyes,and our dream,our conscience calmly allows are dreams to whisper those untold and forgotten motifs, tales and memories.

They are our immortal impulses which are deprived of reality and the present outlook but still they follow us in a way ahead of our thinking and do’s and dont’s. Our dreams are a mirror to our expectations and also a personification to our certainties.It’s not that we achieve what we dream,moreover it’s just about the sincerity in what we conduct and the manner we approach to achieve.We get used to our daily routine and sleep relentlessly to compensate the lost consciousness,which is the best split-second duration to overcome the negativity and incarnate the potion of recreation.

 Imagination and delusion are two phases of our dreams which highly influence our longings and malevolence.
They are an important aspect to analyze the best in ourselves,which turns out to be a tentative good fortune sometimes and a positive mood definitely.Let’s a live a tension-free espirit and cherish the power to dream on and stay ecstatic switching off our complicated systems.


I am an individual of an era where I keep updating myself of the do’s and dont’s that happen to me in everyday scenario.But I still strive harder everyday to get through the reasons which actually stop us from growing.Our decisions and priorities lay straight in front still we hesitate to acquire them actively because we have an instinct that we are satisfied in what we have and draw a line there itself. The reality whereas lies in a rational decision that is one that is not just reasoned,but also optimal for achieving a goal. There are strange and gorgeous times,tonnes of challenges,dazzling possibilities and I viscerally want us to leverage these times to fly,to express your talent, to do your dreams, to make the world better.
We can atleast start small,dream huge but begin today,nothing happens until we take a massive action. The sad reality is that procrastination is nothing more than a defense mechanism of choice used by scared people, if we actually did our goals and acted on our vision, we’d have become ultra-successful. The spectacular success brings responsibility that frightens most of us and so we put off getting great things done and blame the world for any mediocrity that infuses our lives.

A Helping Hand

It is true to my belief that problems being very frequent mostly end up landing us into core helplessness and an overhauled margin of tolerance, where we just strive to boot scan the entire system of our skulls and restart our immortal enigma. To counterbalance our etched brains and blocked hearts, we discover it empirical to depend on some close one to pull our legs out of this deadly estranged condition, which certainly reduces our introspection but leads us to a defalcated mesh, where we are just taken for granted leading us to a quantum of gratitude and being credulous to the heavenly soul who attributed his worthy hand to put an end to our tumult.

 I wonder why we can’t sort out these ramshackled issues on our own, which threaten us to intricate more deplorable circumstances, I feel that no one can be of the best help in a way, we can serve our culpability with “no complains no demands”. It’ll be ecstatic on our part to diminish the hurdle to an appalling insurgency and steer our minds to get ahead and gear up our lions to visualize the fuss in our head in a very peculiar manner. The dare to look at our problems straight in face is a convergence to our bravery and strength I believe, which will rather flaunt our endurance to the ones who love to look down upon us.

Most of us desire to improve certain things about the personality, the nature and the character at times but the lasting change is elusive. Rather many of our habits are ingrained and some exaggerated personality attributes are immutable, so I admire this implication to top the list of borrowing a helping hand to myself, because it’s never too late to believe in ourselves rather than being abashed of derogatory individuals.

Being rational to ourselves with patronizing efforts and determination, it is very much possible to be the person we want us to be. Here we end up the perception and the probability of getting pissed off and even embrace our vogue of being our sole companion.

Feeling the Instincts

The ardent feelings which are evocative enough to turn on the hot-button issues that elicit strong emotional reactions within us are defined  by me as the determined Instincts,which may generally be a decayed mind or a neglected heart on the verge of deterioration. I do anyway enjoy the art of acknowledging the unstructured thoughts that my mind broadcasts every moment,as its a major consequence of fluctuating my systolic and diastolic pressures.
The best thing about this inner voice is that it doesn’t dominate us as a critical parent,a compusive spender, an addictive personality or an angry perpetrator, it never shouts either. It calmly speaks frm a point of silence deep within you.We being the Homo-Sapeins have a unique sense of interaction with our minds only when we land up in a state of entangled nuerons,thus being very generous to us our inner voice presents us with the mind’s Big Database Response which somehow comes to be our intense desire that we were imapatiently expecting to happen.This definitely leads me to a conclusion where I strongly feel that feelings based statements can provide a wealth of information that the spreadsheets wont.Basically its a rearward to positivity,prosperity and consiousness because at the backend our gut feeling is one’s conscience in regard to a peculiar circumastance.
On the contrary, a head that is cluttered with extraneous thoughts,worry,fear,resentment,longing,desire or onging grief will feel physically impaired to percieve the sound of its inner voice due to the noise within. A sense of meditation is an ironical satire to my belief because the inner voice is not demanding enough like closed eyes in an empty room and concentrating on something unusual,it just craves for the constant heed paid to yourself in any state as in while cooking, reading or any other chores which constantly helps in driving out the ego driven ideas and desires from our over expecting minds. It has the ability to bring out a more sincere person within us by reducing the stress and improvement of heath related issues upto a certain level.
My Gut feeling has always been by my side in rough and smooth paths which I went through my childhood and it turned to be fruitful mostly.Listening to your inner voice can atleast stop pushing you towards aimless dires and unfold you to a brighter path leading to more time and energy for a sense of enjoyment.