*Misleading Memories*

There must be thousands words you have ever said to me, but now I remember only few of them. Sure they are filtered by my mind in parallel lines to my desires, drawing an unrealistic image of yours.It is then when I realize, I cannot even trust my memories, as they too are misleading… I remember only half of their side – the brighter one, the darker side being ignored intentionally by my loving heart. What I remember is just a false belief, the darker side being the truth.

It is then when I realize I cannot even trust my heart, as it is no more loyal to me but to you.It is then when I realize, that there doesn’t exist a single thing within me that I can trust upon… Everything seems vague and fake… Even me myself!

There was this heavy rain that clouds poured outside, and another heavy rain existed in me, where everything on my path seemed to be overlapped with clouds of uncertainties. However rain is essential sometimes to wash the path once in a while, to make the path clear. My rain too was essential, to make the path better for me.

Lately it’s about emotions that are unexpressed, relations that are essential, moments of heavenly happiness as well as devastating sorrows & beauty of life!

Die Enormous!


May these 39 insights fuel your rise. And transform your game…‎ 

#1. ‎Dream up a vision so brave it makes all around you roll with laughter. Or reply with ridicule. 

#2. Care a lot more about how many people you help than how much recognition you receive. 

#3. Become the heavyweight champion of your craft. The undisputed titan of your field. And–quite simply–the best there ever was. 

#4. Protect your pristine reputation. It’s an asset of priceless value. And each day, make your good name worth even more by doing acts of excellence, work that astonishes and gestures that inspire. 

#5. When you fall, feel the pain. And then stand up. You were born for victory. And failure has no place in your world. 

#6. Offer great words. Your language forges your beliefs. And your beliefs drive your behaviors. Speak like a lion, never a sheep. Talk like a leader, never a victim. 

#7. Lean into your fears. Go out to your edges. Because the place where your greatest limits live is also the place where your greatest growth lies. 

#8. Become a walking, talking excuse-free zone, understanding that your excuses are nothing more than the lies your shadows have sold you. As of this moment, do what needs to get done. And remember, just because something was hard to do yesterday doesn’t ‎mean it won’t be easy to do today. 

#9. Silence your critics. Ignore your haters. Delete your cynics. The very act of playing at mastery and elevating the world is a massively disruptive act. Average people will become threatened by your brilliance. And so, try to stifle your genius. 

#10. Mentor a child. Inspire a kid. Raise a neighborhood. To be great is to be of use. And an instrument of service. 

#11. Most epic performers invested in 2.44 hours of daily training for ten straight years before the first signs of their greatness showed up (that’s ten years of anonymous). Most iconic companies took twenty years before they dominated their industries. World-class is a process. And legendary takes time. 

#12. To double your success, triple what you spend on personal development and professional learning. Because the person who knows the most becomes the best. This idea alone not only built my life–it saved it. 

#13. Forgive those who need to be forgiven. Each of us is doing the best we can, based on the information we know. No point in wasting too much time getting even. The Chinese proverb said it best: “before you go off to seek revenge, it is best to dig two graves.” 

#14. Be radically generous. Give your known ones 100X the value they expect (they’ll fall in love with you). Give your loved ones 100X more love than they demand (they’ll adore you). And do it without expectation of any return. Otherwise it’s not a real gift–it’s a trade. 

#15. Be an original. Copycats never become ubiquitous. And clones don’t become game-changers. 

#16. Spend time in solitude. Daily. As you rise into your heroism and construct a life that will make history, you’ll face the voices of dissent. Spending time alone will forge your conviction for your mission. And allow you to refuel. So you stay strong for your vision. 

#17. Be not afraid of heartbreak. The root of the word “passion” means “to suffer”.‎ And all masters suffer. They suffer the pain of stumbling their way to greatness. And the hurt of standing for their artistry. And the wound of being misunderstood. Along with the sacrifice of practicing their craft to extreme degrees. 

#18. When you witness injustice, speak up. And do something about it. If you don’t, you allow unfairness to rule our world. 

#19. Get fit like an athlete. Not just to look good and become lean. But to live long. So you can inspire, elevate and serve for many many more years. Staying in the game longer than anyone around you is a gorgeous strategy for becoming iconic. 

#20. Be real. Too many of us are so petrified to be ourselves that we invest our energy in becoming great pretenders. But few things are as powerful than a human being who’s comfortable in their own skin.‎ Authenticity is an element of mastery. Oscar Wilde said it perfectly: “Be yourself, everyone else is taken.” 

#21. Say sorry when you need to. Say thank you like you mean it. 

#22. Remember that gratitude is the antidote to misery. Neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin and nor epinephrine get dumped into your brain. You’ll feel happier, stronger more alive and on fire to rise to remarkable. 

It’s my Fault!

A numb heart, a shaken mind and a ruptured soul are the only leftovers in a girl after being a victim of horrendous physical harassment. The atrocity leaves her to just symbolize the shame,which her surroundings portray her as. A screech in her heart, to be playful again, the way she was, before getting served to those obnoxious males, stays unheard at the threshold of her tethered dignity.

Her friends,family and all near ones appear outlying, the disgraceful zone of her deflowered chastity.Some cry and some die, but the vultures are still hunting for the next prey. From truck drivers to our big shots, none of them take a back seat in committing this misdeed.    

                                         weeping

Three highly dignified, learned and reputed personalities in our surroundings are notoriously perceptible. Aasaram Bapu (is or was portrayed) as a spiritual guru,the Bapu, had loads of followers who trusted him blindly, respected him and pampered him next to God. Tarun Tejpal, being the second, is a renowned Indian journalist, publisher, novelist, philanthropist and former editor-in-cheif of an eminent magazine who rocked Indian media with his sting operation. And then there is Justice A.K. Ganguly, a far-famed retired judge of the highest court of India, who delivered judgement in many high profile cases and was the former chairperson of the West Bengal Human Rights Commission. He had been accounted as “My Lord” on an uncountable axis during his tenure in court.

A common link standing amid these all is the heinous act of women harassment.

Women especially Indian women are doomed up to put up with harassment-on the streets, in their homes, almost all public places and in their workplaces too. Unfortunately, this rotten mentality is not only confined to the lower section of the society but it has its reach upto upper echelons of our civilization. The victims involve both the less privileged women and the high-class strong women. “ Ignore the barking dogs”, that is the most common advice they get from people around them and are also forced to forget the incidence claiming it as a part of every women’s life. “What’s the big deal in it ?”, “Every women has to go through it”. Now my concern is that why the women are doomed to go through it?

The answer lies in the male dominated society as, women have always been considered weaker as compared to men. It is somewhere in the male governed psychology that men have the complete authority to control women. The gender inequality has been prevalent since ages in our country and till now, women have not got the respect and dignity that they deserve to get. Also the stagnation of the judicial system and police to deal with such cases gets the accused away easily. The victims choose to be silent, as in such cases, there is least or no justice at all, making the incident public, harms her dignity more than doing any good to her.

The conditions are so deplorable that the one who raises her voice against such crimes, their own conduct and character comes under scrutiny, the reactions firing up from all sections of the society. The victim is mostly traumatized, humiliated in public and on the whole is looked upon by suspicious eyes. Right from eating noodles, possessing mobile phones to her western attire becomes the reason for social violence against her. She mistakenly becomes the reason for her own defamation and is being prudently objectified by public.

Despite the guidelines, and various other laws made, for women security, harassment and social abuse against women has continued. Until and unless there is a social and moral awakening against such beastly exploitations, every women will be forced to screech ,”It’s my fault”.

Smelling yesteryear’s dust!

It had already stopped raining and the evening looked more splendid, as it was an unusual winter shower. Poised and composed as I walked down the little lane near my house, the cluster of little wet houses with few people leisurely taking a walk and two other children running after each other was delightful. I was drifted back in time which left me surprised, how two days can be so connected. Different times different eras, and the journey of 20 years seemed like a myth which had happened to us. Me and my brother cherished these rainy moments with a super-energetic reminiscence,where paper boats and kitchen set were the most precious toys to give life for. And it struck me why living here brings me a strange peace. Childhood tugs at my heart and I was left with a glimpse of a time gone.
As a child, all I wanted to get out of my little town, live in faraway lands, eat different food, lead different life. Now I am doing exactly that and yet,life has come a full circle. I savor every bit of nostalgia in light of treasuring memories. I find comfort in simple food of yesteryear’s and the rains which swiftly drained me to some amazing times.
Life brings about myriad possibilities. It astonishes me how a day can sometime stretch on and on and we fit in an unbelievable amount of love,care,affection and feelings into it.Every hour..every minute..every second goes on as we joyfully taste every bit. Then sometimes we wake up and blink and the day vanishes, just like that, we have nothing to recall, nothing to account for.

The Secret of Wishes!

The law of attraction states that every positive or negative event that happened with you was attracted by you. There are only three basic steps: ask, believe, and receive. However, the point of this article is to break those three steps down into simpler, more concise ones. We all use the Law of Attraction in our everyday lives, but the Big Secret is most people do not realize it. So they miss out on how to use it deliberately to create whatever they want and desire.

After learning and analyzing this, my life has changed for the better.

We all tend to slip back into our most practiced ways of thinking from time to time, especially when we are in the vicinity of negative people or in a negative circumstance.
But, I have learned several ways to help me stay in that positive train of thought and it has been amazing. My life is much more peaceful and happy, because I now realize that I am the attractor of my own life experiences. It just requires following some very simple steps like –

Relaxing your mind. Meditating for few minutes. Doing this will increase brain power and have your mind at that relaxed state. Be sure about what you want and then practice not to doubt your belief. If  you aren’t sure of your want, the Universe will get an unclear frequency and it’ll accordingly send undesired results. So its mandatory of being sure of something you have strong enthusiasm for. Make a genuine request to the Universe or a picture of what you want, visualizes your want to be already yours. Make a written wish list for your want and avoid the negativity in it to have an infinite belief towards acceptance. Every day until the wish comes true, close your eyes and imagine your desire as if it’s happening right now.


Feel the way you will now after receiving your wish. You must act, speak, and think as if you are receiving it now. This is actually the most important, powerful step in using the Law of Attraction because this is where it starts working, and sometimes if you do this you don’t feel like you need it anymore because you FEEL like you already have it! And then the universe will manifest this thought and feeling and you will receive it. Write down all the things the Universe has given you. Be thankful for what you already have and be thankful for all the things the Universe has given you. The Universe has done a lot of things for us. Paying the Universe back with some gratitude will motivate the Universe to do even more things and will draw more things into your life. Showing gratitude will turbo boost the Universe to manifest your request faster.

Imagine an alternate dimension that is almost exactly like the real world but whatever you truly desire comes true in an instant. See yourself in that dimension, where whatever you ask the Universe for comes to you in an instant. Don’t look for what you asked for; this is where people tend to mess up. If you have to keep an eye out for an event that manifests your wish, it’s only telling the Universe you don’t have it and you will attract…not having it. Be patient. Don’t get upset if these things don’t happen immediately. Don’t stress the “how” of things. Let the Universe do it for you. When you take the Universe’s job of worrying about the “how”, this says you’re lacking faith and that you’re telling the Universe what to do when the Universe has far greater knowledge and power than human mankind.


A Reason to smile!

 I was also one of those not-so-open girls, who sheepishly cross the way so that no one notices ,and never expected that sort of ideal love stories of Love at first site. And I believed myself to be strong minded, independent and  elegant  too..(giggles) .A girl in twenties who had the sensitivity of a petal to heal life, yet the strength of a tree to face life ,a heart which could absorb all pain , yet could shed tears touched by the pain of a stranger. A soul which held an understanding the very wise have, yet cares like the most innocent child ever. In short , a complete , geometrical opposite to what the guys look out for..
Before he stepped into my life, I knew he had to be very calm, serious and quiet person. I had already imagined my life with him. My days & nights would be full of talks about work, life, aspirations and other serious issues I have talked about with others. But love doesn’t happen such a regular and ordinary way. It has to tread on the path we never imagine to walk on and with the person we never can imagine to love. Every girl has a frame in her dream of the man she would want to be with for her whole life. And when the man arrives, the frame vanishes…doesn’t matter how different the man from the frame is, because while a boy finds a girl who keeps him happy,this boy has found a girl he wants to keep happy. 

My friends used to say that only a quiet person can ever bear me for his life, a person who has plenty of words will leave me in two days. He  also shared this with me that only a bubbly & funny girl can stay happily with him. How easy it is to think and imagine along those lines…and we two also imagined the same. But fate had something else in store for us. I think fate always has something else in store for everyone, at least not what they imagine about relationships.
A funny girl would have given him a perfect environment of laughter’s and jokes. A day with a quiet girl won’t have its complete share. I remember I told  this once to him. At first, I used to feel that he is fun-loving, talking-always-nonsense nature can only survive for little time. I  laughed with him, I smiled with him..unknown with the fact that the laughter won’t last for long. But in his absence, I recalled those and laughed again alone..just like an insane. I believe this…when you do something in isolation, it reflects your true feelings. I saw him  making people around him laugh, make them feel happy in what they are doing, make them believe in their capabilities and dreams, make them feel good about life. 
At least, I felt all whatever I stated above. And then I realized, it doesn’t matter what kind of person you imagine would be the best for your life…only thing matters is your completion with the one.We may be poles apart from each other…but he made me believe in myself and love, make me feel good about life, he  makes  it worth living and not just spending days, and he made me….ME.

Eyes..speak a lot!

Eyes do speak a lot, they scan the cardiac sensations and instantly reveal the status beneath. However, we today are in a common practice to run beyond our emotions and follow something unusual,which just enhances a momentous harmony. Still we act so optimistic to our beliefs,that we open-heartedly accept the notions and give a room to the satisfaction of being happy.

Yet eyes give a contradictory glimpse to that of our other sense organs and betray the fabricated emoticons fixed on the dim face.Eyes have the potential to hide and expose our instincts and they purposely come in action when we are at the top of our concocted emotions.They also take care of concealing the mighty tears in the corners, just to make a watery impact on the protagonist,who may consider it to be an evidence of satire or an instance of melancholy.Eyes also smile with us when we give a heartious laugh which is a symbol of our internal happiness and purity.This happiness may be a consequence of longing true love or blooming prosperity, which is an indication of the spark and colors in life through the gleaming eyes, full of vigor and charm.  

These eyes can make it possible to melt a bosom as hard as a boulder to a crystal clear potion, by just laying them upon the admirer.The beauty of the eyes lie in the truth beheld in the heart and  mind. Not everyone has the power to express, but every eye has a lot to speak about. Eyes also have the worth to drive out the inapproachable facts endogenous to the one sitting beside.They are magical and illusive too, but one thing they always do is concise themselves when they deceive.